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008			820126s1982 ilu b 000 0 eng
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050	1	4	_aBF637 _b.W446 1982
049			_aSBIM
100	1		_aWorthington, Everett L., _cJr., _d1946- _e1
245	1	0	_aWhen someone asks for help : _ba practical guide for counseling / _cEverett L. Worthington, Jr.
260			_aDowners Grove, Ill. : _bInterVarsity Press, _c(c)1982.
300			_a239 pages ; _c21 cm
336			_atext _btxt _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _bn _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _bnc _2rdacarrier
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505	0	0	_a1. Me, a helper -- _tWhy is friend-to-friend counseling effective? -- _t2. What can you expect from this book -- _tJim: a case study -- _tHelping jim -- _tPart one: A model for helping -- _t2. What is Christian helping -- _tDefining Christina helping -- _tKeeping on track -- _t3. What are people like and what causes problems -- _tPersonal theories about people -- _tNeeds and goals -- _tThe whole person -- _t4. Solving problems -- _tMany doors -- _tHow scientists solve problems -- _tHow people solve problems -- _tStages of helping -- _tPart two: Skills of the effective helper -- _t5. Communication problems (stage 1) -- _tWhy communicate -- _tGood and bad translations -- _tWeeding the garden -- _tPower struggles -- _tIt takes time -- _t6. Understanding emotions (stage 1) -- _tWhat we learn through emotions -- _tRecognizing different emotions -- _tWhat emotions do -- _tHandling strong emotions -- _t7. Messages that don't help (Stage 1) -- _tLet me ask you this -- _tThere, there, friend -- _tYou think you've got a problem -- _tThat old problem -- _tLet me give you some good advice -- _tLet me tell you about that -- _tI'll take care of it for you -- _tI'll bet I know -- _tNow here's where your wrong -- _t8. Understanding your friend's problem (stage 1) -- _tPreparing to understand the problem -- _tHow to begin -- _tQuestions to be answered in stage 1 -- _tWhen phil asked for help -- _tPhil: session 1 -- _tWhat is phil's point of view of the problem -- _tUnderstanding phil better -- _tEvaluating the interview -- _t9. Showing you understand (stage 2) -- _tIdentifying problems and goals -- _tFocusing discussion -- _tPhil: session 2 -- _tPutting it into practice -- _tIntroducing new ideas -- _tPrelude to action -- _tPhil: session 3 -- _t11. Planning for change (stage 3) -- _tAn ideal plan -- _tDesigning the plan -- _tSuggesting the plan -- _tMotivating for action -- _tCalling for commitment -- _tPhil: session 4 -- _tEvaluating session 4 -- _t12. When the plan goes into effect (stage 4 and 5) -- _tEvaluation (stages 4 and 5) -- _tSupport (Stage 4) -- _tPhil: session 5 -- _tEvaluating this session -- _tFollow-up (stage 5) -- _tPhil: session 6 -- _tEvaluation time -- _t13. The adventure of helping -- _tJim (revisited) -- _tOne possible set of answers -- _tWhat have you learned.
520	0		_a"I have a problem. ... Could you help me?" Ever hear this plea over lunch or late at night in a dormitory? Someone has come to us for help. "Who, me?" we blurt out and then frantically think, "What can I say? How can I help?" Everett Worthington guides us as we respond to these delicate and unexpected situations. First he explains what Christian helping really is, what causes problems and how they can be solved. Then he takes us step by step through the five stages of counseling, from understanding what's going on to helping people work through their problems. Throughout, he describes the delicate dynamics of moving into a helping relationship, providing aid, then moving back into the give-and-take of friendship. Here is a book to help Christians put love into action through bearing other people's burdens.
650		0	_aCounseling.
942			_c1 _hBF _m1982 _QCC _xNIK- ADDED 6-1-2023 _w19.03 _2LOC _dCynthia Snell
994			_aC0 _bSBI
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902			_a1 _bCynthia Snell _c1 _dCynthia Snell