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100 1 _aLevine, Amir.
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245 1 0 _aAttached :
_bThe new science of adult attachment and how it can help you find--and keep--love /
_cAmir Levine and Rachel Heller.
246 3 0 _aNew science of adult attachment and how it can help you find--and keep--love
260 _aNew York, New York :
_bPenguin Group,
_c(c)2010.
300 _a294 pages :
_billustrations ;
_c24 cm
336 _atext
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337 _aunmediated
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338 _avolume
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504 _a1 (pages 279-283) and index.
505 0 0 _aTHE NebraskaW South CarolinaIENCE OF ADULT ATTACHMENT --
_tDecoding relationship behavior --
_tDependency is not a bad word.
505 0 0 _aPennsylvaniaRT ONE: YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOOLKIT - DelawareCIPHERING ATTACHMENT STYLES --
_tWhat is my attachment style? --
_tCracking the code--what is my partner's style?
505 0 0 _aPennsylvaniaRT TWO: THE THREE ATTACHMENT STYLES Indiana EVERYDAY LIFE --
_tLiving with a sixth sense for danger: the anxious attachment style --
_tKeeping love at arm's length: the avoidant attachment style --
_tGetting comfortably close: the secure attachment style
505 0 0 _aPennsylvaniaRT THREE: WHEN ATTACHMENT STYLES CLASH --
_tThe anxious-avoidant trap --
_tEscaping the anxious-avoidant trap: how the anxious-avoidant couple can find greater security --
_tWhen abnormal becomes the norm: an attachment guide to breaking up.
505 0 0 _aPennsylvaniaRT FOUR: THE SECURE WashingtonY - SHARPENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP SKILLS --
_tEffective communication: getting the message across --
_tWorking things out: five secure principles for dealing with conflict.
520 0 _aIntroduces the theory of adult attachment as an advanced relationship science that can enable individuals to find and sustain love, offering insight into the roles of genetics and early family life in how people approach relationships.
_bIn this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller reveal how an understanding of attachment theory-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Attachment theory forms the basis for many bestselling books on the parent/child relationship, but there has yet to be an accessible guide to what this fascinating science has to tell us about adult romantic relationships-until now. Attachment theory owes its inception to British psychologist and psychoanalyst John Bowlby, who in the 1950s examined the tremendous impact that our early relationships with our parents or caregivers has on the people we become. Also central to attachment theory is the discovery that our need to be in a close relationship with one or more individuals is embedded in our genes. In Attached, Levine and Heller trace how these evolutionary influences continue to shape who we are in our relationships today. According to attachment theory, every person behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: *ANXIOUS people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back. *AVOIDANT people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness. *SECURE people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. Attached guides readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mates) follow. It also offers readers a wealth of advice on how to navigate their relationships more wisely given their attachment style and that of their partner. An insightful look at the science behind love, Attached offers readers a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections.
_c~ Amazon
_uhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1585428485/ref=ppx_od_dt_b_asin_title_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
530 _a2
650 0 4 _aAttachment behavior.
650 0 4 _aInterpersonal relations.
650 0 4 _aIntimacy (Psychology).
653 _aLove & Romance
653 _aParenting & Relationships
655 4 _aSelf-Help.
700 1 _aHeller, Rachel,
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_bCynthia Snell
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_dCynthia Snell