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050	0	4	_aHQ801.W211.M377 1996
100	1		_aGoldbart, Stephen, _e1
245	1	0	_aMapping the terrain of the heart : _bpassion, tenderness, and the capacity to love / _cStephen Goldbart, David Wallin. _hPR
250			_afirst softcover edition.
260			_aNorthvale, New Jersey : _bJason Aronson, _c(c)1996.
300			_axxi, 285 pages : _billustrations ; _c21 cm.
336			_atext _btxt _2rdacontent
337			_aunmediated _bn _2rdamedia
338			_avolume _bnc _2rdacarrier
500			_aOriginally published: Reading, Massachusetts : Addison-Wesley, c1994.
504			_a1 (pages 277-279) and index.
505	0	0	_aThe inner map, the six capacities, and the role of defenses in love -- _tThe capacity for erotic involvement: the role of the body in love -- _tThe capacity for merging: the role of boundaries in love -- _tThe capacity for idealization: the role of the romantic ideal in love -- _tThe capacity for integration: the role of acceptance in love -- _tThe capacity for refinding: the role of the past in love -- _tThe capacity for self-transcendence -- _tPassionate love as a journey of transformation.
520	0		_aIf you have read other books about love that have fallen short, read this book. Mapping the Terrain of the Heart is an eloquent guide through love's diverse landscapes that provides a whole new way to think about love relationships. Both descriptive and prescriptive, it is a book for anyone looking to experience a committed relationship full of passion and tenderness. In the labyrinth of love, every one of us has our own inner map. Psychologists Goldbart and Wallin lead us along the metaphorical superhighways on the map of love by charting six easily grasped skills - the six capacities of love - that are each necessary to a long-term, stable love relationship: the capacities for erotic involvement, for merging, for idealization, for integration, for "refinding", and for self-transcendence. The authors demonstrate in a very practical, hands-on way how individuals and couples can use these capacities to work on breaking down their usual defenses and grow toward a deeper understanding and connection. In defending ourselves against disappointment in love, we frequently - and often unknowingly - throw up obstacles, create roadblocks, and take detours around these six capacities. We think such detours will take us where we want to go in a relationship, but too often they do not. Goldbart and Wallin's sophisticated but accessible approach - using case studies and practical pointers throughout - is based on solid psychoanalytic theory while creating a completely new model for love relationships that also makes intuitive sense. Mapping the Terrain of the Heart offers a comprehensive psychology of love that maps out the paths to a successful relationship and shows how both individuals and couplescan progress toward that ever-elusive goal of lasting and passionate love.
530			_a2
650		0	_aLove.
650		0	_aInterpersonal relations.
650		0	_aMan-woman relationships.
650		0	_aIntimacy (Psychology)
700	1		_aWallin, David.
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902			_a1 _bCynthia Snell _c1 _dCynthia Snell