TY - BOOK AU - Lamont,Ellen TI - The mating game: how gender still shapes how we date SN - 9780520970724 AV - HQ801 .M385 2020 PY - 2020/// CY - Oakland, California PB - University of California Press KW - Dating (Social customs) KW - California KW - San Francisco KW - Case studies KW - Equality KW - Sex KW - Youth KW - Sexual minorities KW - Electronic Books N1 - 2; The puzzling persistence of gendered dating --; The quest for egalitarian love --; New goals, old scripts : heterosexual women caught between tradition and equality --; A few good (heterosexual) men : inequality disguised as romance --; Queering courtship : LGBQ people reimagine relationships --; The more things change ... --; Dated dating and the stalled gender revolution; 2; b N2 - "Despite enormous changes in patterns of dating and courtship in twenty-first-century America, contemporary understandings of romance and intimacy remain firmly rooted in assumptions of gender difference. Yet these beliefs now vie with new cultural messages of gender equality that stress self-development, independence, and egalitarian practices in public and private life. Through interviews with heterosexual and LGBTQ individuals, Ellen Lamont's The Mating Game explores how people with diverse sexualities and gendered identities date, form romantic relationships, and make decisions about future commitments as they negotiate an uncertain romantic landscape fraught with competing messages about gender, sexuality, and intimate relationships"-- UR - https://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&scope=site&db=nlebk&db=nlabk&AN=2291034&site=eds-live&custid=s3260518 ER -