TY - BOOK AU - Cloud,Henry AU - He,Mingzhu AU - TI - Necessary Ending: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward T2 - Work SN - 9789861983394 AV - BF637 .N434 2013 PY - 2013/// CY - Taibei Shi PB - Xiao yuan shu fang KW - Change (Psychology) KW - Organizational change KW - Interpersonal relations N1 - Translation of: Necessary endings : the employees, businesses, and relationships that all of us have to give up in order to move forward; English contents: Endings: the good cannot begin until the bad ends --; Pruning: growth depends on getting rid of the unwanted or the superfluous --; Normalizing necessary endings: welcome the seasons of life into your worldview --; When stuck is the new normal: the difference between pain with a purpose and pain for no good reason --; Getting to the pruning moment: realistic, hopeless, and motivated --; Hoping versus wishing: the difference between what's worth fixing and what should end --; The wise, the foolish, and the evil: identifying which kinds of people deserve your trust --; Creating urgency: stay motivated and energized for change --; Resistance: How to tackle internal and external barriers --; No more Mr. Bad Guy: the magic of self-selection --; Having the conversation: Strategies for ending things well --; Embrace the grief: the importance of metabolizing necessary endings --; Sustainability: taking inventory of what is depleting your resources --; Conclusion: it's all about the future; 2 ER -