Building resilience in children and teens : giving kids roots and wings /

Ginsburg, Kenneth R.,

Building resilience in children and teens : giving kids roots and wings / [print] Kenneth R. Ginsburg, Maryland, Mississippi Ed, FAAP, with Martha M. Jablow ; cover design by Daniel Rembert ; book design by Peg Mulcahy. - Third edition. - Elk Grove Village, Illinois : American Academy of Pediatrics, (c)2015. - xvi, 357 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm

Includes online videos.

Includes bibliographies and index.

Resilience and stress. Why resilience? -- Stress and its effects -- Ingredients of resilience: 7 crucial C's -- Not letting others undermine your child's resilience (or psych you out!). The value of play -- Noticing, praising, and criticizing -- Authentic success -- Thinking clearly -- No more lectures -- "I get it!" -- Changing behavior step-by step -- Shifting the blame to save face -- Media literacy -- Not being broken -- Building confidence. Connection, character, and contribution. Connection -- The art and importance of listening -- Strengthening family ties -- Widening the circle -- Some cautions about connection -- Supporting resilience in military families -- Nurturant connections offer meaningful protection against the effects of childhood trauma -- Character -- Grit: the character trait that drives performance -- Contribution. Taking action -- Taking care of your body -- Taking care of your emotions. Positive discipline strategies -- Increasing kids' control -- Delaying gratification -- Preparing our families for lifelong interdependence -- One rung at a time -- Not everything is within our control. When resilience is challenged beyond reasonable limits. Extreme circumstances -- Turning for help -- When your own resilience reaches its limits. Just for kids: a personalized guide for managing stress -- Parting thoughts.

This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension.



9781581108668

2014932928


Child rearing.
Parent and child.
Resilience (Personality trait) in children.
Resilience (Personality trait) in adolescence.
Adolescent psychology.
Child psychology.


Nonfiction.

BF723.G493.B855 2015 BF723